I may listen and at times vLidate but i have not offered idea's or solutions to any of W concerns.
Good to hear, b/c some women resent the H for always jumping to the conclusion her talking to him means her seeking his help. A lot of men are "fixers". Many of their jobs require them to fix something. When they go home and the W begins talking about her day......maybe complaining about something particularly, the H thinks that's his cue to tell her how to deal with the problem. However, she just wants him to hear her.......not tell her how to fix it. It is extremely frustrating to women. Therefore, look into her eyes when she is talking, nod your head to let her know you are interested, and validate her feelings.......and do not tell what she should do, unless she asks. That's a win - win solution.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
