Thank you Wf you put into words just what i was thinking. I have a lady friend i feel i could share anything with im not physically attracked to her but it bothers me that i could sit and share my issues with her and i cant get that same sort of conversation going with my w.

I find my self looking at my wife from afar and feeling like the gap is getting wider.

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Why if i can find a way to connect with a female friend is it so hard to find a common ground with the w.

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Because i have so much contact with my w do you think asking a question like "do you enjoy these small interactions with me and the familly and if so would you like to add anything to them?" Be a smart thing to do

Woundedfool do you have a active thread at this time i have read up on your history with the renewed contact of your w imvery intsrested in how this may affect some of your choices going forward thanks again for your comments and suggestions.


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