Wow, that's quite something to go on holiday with one woman and come back with another....eek! I'm sorry if OW2 is in a slightly crazy, stalking place - but as she is finding, life tends to unfold in karmic ways, based on your earlier choices.

It is good that you are managing to rein in any fixing tendencies towards him. He's a grown man and not your life partner any more. How he chooses to manage his own life is up to him. It has certainly helped me to think that way about myself and about XH too.

I would focus on moving healthily forward with an emphasis on your own security and finances. Do what works best for you in a fair and graceful way.


Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus