Have a nice time at dinner. Just what the doctor ordered. I am out for drinks at my dear neighbors who have taken me under their wing and never met H.

I, too, used to very extroverted and fun and full of questions. I was so strong and thought if my husband ever had an affair that would be it and couldn't understand other women who put up with it. Oh how naive. Am too exhausted and tired of sounding like crazy lady trying to explain MLC. Now, I am afraid to ask anyone if they are married, etc. as I feel like it may be too personal a question. WTF?

I have also pulled back from a lot of friends as with some I felt like they lost all respect for me for letting this go in for so long; although, I worked super hard to never appear as victim or tell them everything because I thought if they knew all the freaky sick things my husband did they would commit me for ever considering making the marriage work. Well, no worries there.

Sadly the MLC changes us too and not always for the best. That said, you will glam up, look beautiful and have a great time being in the safety of company who care for you. Have a great time. Get the old Treasur back.


Me-54 H-49
T-1. M-7
BD 6/13 ILYBN I threw him out
OW - 3/13
OW2 on and off Overlap w/Ow1and OW3
OW3 - 8/17
H filed 1/17