What I have seen work is when the H dumps the WW. Whether in his attitude, behavior, or legally. I use the word "dump" for a reason. It is much more effective when he dumps her, rather than him trying to survive what she does to him. You know how it affected you when you got the bomb drop. Well, that describes how she feels to see you actually dumping her. But it must be legit, b/c pretense doesn't work very well. Not only for him to dump her.......but to show no interest in her at all, and him living it up.
Well, that is my week in a nutshell. Yes I have seen very positive results since dumping her this week. Followed by Going Dark, so to speak. She seemed happy when the lines of conversation opened up again.
Sooooo, where do I go from here? I restored some dominance and saw good results. Friendly conversation has been the result.
Do I maintain some distance yet continue the new old best friend stuff?
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
