Oldtimer 4 years and counting

[Citygrl]

Bombshell news just arrived and, of course, it's a doozy from crazy MLC husband!

I haven't been posting because I have been living vicariously through Treasur and OwnIt but think I may need to get some thoughts down.

Learned this morning that MLC H has dumped frumpy, old, weird (I am told), Eastern European cleaning lady, whom he met cleaning his self-imposed bachelor pad for.....wait for it.....another Eastern European (from a better looking country; the same country of choice from which his married brother picked his!) he and OW2 were on a very generic low brand cruise to a cold country (as is the of choice when you already live in a country of no summer, sarcasm) when he met Olga now OW3 (have no idea what her name is).

So let's recap. Was on holiday with OW2 (who he told his lawyer he wanted to marry) met Olga in the casino, spent the night with her and came back and told everyone. Now OW2 is stalking him. Bet she is bummed her money train has left the station. No sympathy for OW2 as she started sleeping with him when he was with the "love of his life" the half his age, engaged--who's fiancée also worked for my husband--OW1.

Are you following 'this This is what happens when you are four years in. And and and, this is only half the story!

So, a few things now that the juicy titillating bits are out there. For anyone out there wondering how crazy it can get. This is it. There is so much more. Am now going to really pursue divorce as it is just a matter of days before this one goes pregnant. For that I am certain.

The bad news is I can no longer keep tabs on his spending and vacations as OW2 is out of the pic, so no FB info.

To all those still reading: I am not a crazy loon. I am from a family where everyone is happily married, am educated, had a career I enjoyed and disposable income, HAD a great normal, loving, fun husband who I adored and seemed to adore me until MLC got him. It is heartbreaking watching him destroy his life. Am shocked he met Olga in a casino as he never had ANY interest in gambling. My guess is Olga is a prostitute who works the ships or was working in the casino. Who does that? Who hooks up with someone while on vacation with another? The MLC man. That's who.

One of the missing pieces to the puzzle is why does he do and say everything his brother does? His brother and he are so different. His brother started MLC and my husband followed. I get the issues that threw my H into MLC but don't truly get the brother connection. Am hesitant to write entire story as B plays a huge role but has a lovely STBXW and children. I am always afraid that the story is so weird that someone will read here and know them.

Surprisingly, I feel fine and like I just got a good piece of gossip. Is that detachment? I am happy OW2 got her comeuppance (even though if Olga blows up OW2 and he may get back together). Tired of turning other cheek and being big person. Ha ha ha OW2. You are old enough to know better. A year go this would have sent me into major downward spiral. Maybe it hasn't hit me.

So, am processing this and STILL feel so much sympathy for H. He is a mess and ruining his life. My fix-it tendencies want to reach out to him as I did last time he was out of control but this is a different situation. So no worries, am staying extremely dim (only contact re divorce stuff) and detached. Guess I am not detached as still interested in his drama but now as an onlooker.

Comments anyone? What is there to say? He is not getting off the crazy train.