I'm just concerned that if you go, you won't be relaxed or detached, and you might start asking questions that won't increase your confidence.
You don't want to arrive there only to use a microscope for all the comments that are normally made. Someone will bring up his name around you, and it's important that you present as a fun loving confident woman.
It might be too soon for you.
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