KGirl - new life, new stuff #2

[25yearsmlc]

^ Ha, right? It's either that... or one of them is trying to get with me now that XBF is out of the picture (I heard a lot about how the friends thought I was "really cool" etc.),

if one of them was appealing to you & wants to date you, you'll know. Then you can decide.

If not, they are just looking for another game player. It's obviously not a bad thing to get an invite.

If you feel that you'll overthink the whole evening, (which I fear), then don't go. Thank them and say you already have plans that night. No need to explain. No need to worry about it.




or, he told them something different than what my interpretation was of what happened (like "we're taking a pause" or some BS).


well, what difference does that make? I'm asking.

Take the guy you dated out of the equation and ask yourself if you'd enjoy the evening.
Can you detach, or will you probe for info or be pre-occupied?

Add the guy back in, and ask yourself if you'd really feel relaxed in the environment. And I assume there will be some alcohol so take that into consideration.

And is there a chance the guy you dated will show up? What if he brings a date?

Yeah, see, even if you are assured he won't be there, I think it'll be hard for you to have fun that night. Why not tell them you have plans and that you wold love to do it next time.

Then give yourself that time to detach.

Hang in there.

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