if your h goes for and somehow gets 50% custody, I'd smirk and smh.
He wont' use it up, he'd be late, or a no show with a last minute excuse, which YOU will document in your paper trail.
And that^^ is IF he got half custody.
If a miracle happens and he really does get half custody AND if another miracle happens and he uses the time with the kids and acts like a dad, that would not be a nightmare.
But for now it's so far down the road, I would not give it any headspace. Truly.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016