I agree with Joseph. At the end of the day the WW has to see that what she is losing is better than what she is hoping to gain. In my sitch I am competing as against the influence of OM, potential OM who are interested in being ON who are giving advice (Even though they habe their own W.) Two bff who are cheating on thwor own significant others. And at this point I just don't feel like I should be competing with people who obviously ain't sh*t.
And prior to the A, W would have recognized this in all these people. It's honestly probably going to take my W seeing me with her replacement for the fog to finally blow away. Knowing my W she'll probably go into panic mode at that point. My W in any circumstance has to learn the hard way and this situation will not be angy different apparently.
