Personal milestone achieved today: 90 lbs down since bomb drop.
Drama has been nonexistent for the past two weeks (knocking on wood right now). STBXW keeping D for a three day weekend this week. It should be my weekend, but since I had D a couple of weekends ago because of BIL (which ended up being two weekends in a row) I offered her this one in exchange and she took it.
D joined girl scouts yesterday, we started a new troop in her school. We'd tried last year, but not enough interest. STBXW was marginally against this because any weekend activities would "cut into her time." I offered to swap any weekends that were girlscout activity weekends with her so it would be "mine." Really, the time is D's, anyway, and if STBXW doesn't want to bond with D over girl scouts, that's her choice.
C appointment today. Hearing on STBXW's motion in 19 days, and maybe I'll be divorced.
MIL asked if she could come to dinner next Wednesday, D will be excited (I'm happy, too).