Park......my W and I are separated and I really only see two options.
1. I file and see if that wakes her up and I would only do it if it was truly what I wanted.
2. Gal, detach, etc. life your life and really in a nut shell wait it out. People don't like to call it limbo and if you can get to the right mindset it's probably not however in reality your still waiting. Semantics in my opinion.
I think everyone has different levers to pull based on their Sitch. Some it could be separating, some it could be the lbs filing for D, others the WW wakes up. I think the point is to save yourself and whatever happens with you W won't matter. I think all of us want our families back together however it takes 2 to make that happen.
I personally have accepted that my marriage is over, that happened the moment she walked out the door.
