So, as W and I are still sharing the same bed, last night she tells me that tomorrow she has an out of town business trip and needs to get up at 5am.
(Sound familiar and suspicious?)

Although I am an early riser, this is still before I usually get up and she asks if she should sleep in another room. Emotionless I say it doesn't matter.

Due to the early day, she showers that night and I start to process. This stinking feeling starts to settle in. Once out of the shower I state that since I don't really trust where she is going, I decided I would prefer she sleep elsewhere.
Non Defensively, she says "would you like to see the email regarding the trip?" I say "not really". She gives a few more details and I ask if she prefers to sleep in our bed. She says "yes". I say fine then.

I then asked if she resented my questioning her story. She said not at all.
This morning she provided a print out of where she was going.

I know I try to read too much out of these interactions. It's what I do.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.