Get over your hill and see what you find there

[Treasur]

One of the things (just one!) I find so bewildering about STBXH's behaviour is how he says he wants x but then acts in a way which is almost the opposite.

He said he wanted to 'move on' and to not go to Court. That going to Court will bankrupt him and cost him his job. He asked me to propose a £ settlement. I did as he asked. He's had a week to say yes/no/alternative. No action at all. Even in a crazy MLC head, how does that make sense? Why wouldn't he just do it to get what he says he wants, to be done and free? Any ideas?

I'm really tired of mind reading crazy but I can't completely disconnect yet because of the D process. Not only have I let go in my heart now, I actually want him to go away now. I just need him to let me go so I can get away from this madness...sigh