Hi Job, thanks for your advice, I really do appreciate it.

I was reading the advice you gave on some really old posts and as we know the outcome of those sitches, the advice you often gave as spot on.

Journaling - when D didn't respond to H I told her that I reckon he will find another excuse to contact her and the reason would be if she needed help getting a birthday present for me. I think I might my psychic! Low and behold she got a text from him on Wednesday asking if she wanted extra money for my birthday present! D went back to him and said that she was all sorted on that front and also said that she was busy all summer up until she goes back to college so she won't be able to go on holiday him. Phew, I'm glad that is all sorted now!

Happy Friday everyone!


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')