I am reflecting on some conflicting techniques here on this board.
Become the best you. A Lighthouse etc. yet don't dash around cleaning like a gay boyfriend. Keep conversations short, answer and don't expand. Don't serve her coffee like your old self used to.
So as to not be misunderstood, I am challenging my understanding, not the methods.
Why do you think it's contradictive?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
