Hi HaWho, glad you had a good visit with your sister, and I agree that there sound to be a few more positives coming from your H.

Eating life with a big spoon is a great attitude to have and for those who choose to stand, there is a fine balance between doing so and putting your own life on hold.

Credit to him if he is doing some inner work, and I am glad for him if so. For you, I would merely note and move forward, not attaching any particular expectations.

I too admire how you handle things, and I know that you are going to be just fine however things may unfold in your life.

Very best wishes to you xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus