Still thinking about whether to tell. Guess that really depends on what is going on or how I fell at the time. My W attempts at claiming to is contradicted by her actions.
Ginger,
I will allow the consequences to come naturally for the most part. Unless I find myself having to correct her lies.
EarthTN and Sandi,
It's interesting how that works with the WW. As if I'm obligated to give unlimited access to the space ahe is leaving. For all I know W could be staying with other guys. So leaving the home means you do you and I will do me.