Just paid a £2500 bill to my L, so about £3500 so far. Confident he's spent as much if not more, and neither of us have any spare cash floating around...

For a D I never wanted. Because my MLC/depressed H wouldn't talk to me, reply to emails or go to mediation....

For that much, we could have taken a long round the world trip and talked stuff out on beaches with cocktails, and eating street food in Asia, and learning to surf and climbing mountains....grrr...only another £5000 to go and the divorce will cost more than our 2003 wedding just without dancing, kisses and cake...


Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17