Hey Tread, I don't have much to add in terms of advice, but reading your post touched me. Some of it felt like something I could have written.

Telling our kids was one of the hardest parts for me, so just be prepared when you break the news to S13.

My W's parents did not approve of her decision either, but that doesn't seem to have made any difference.

Have you made a decision yet about spilling the beans?


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.