Your H is obviously doing some inner work and evolving in his dorm room chrysalis. What does it mean? Well, for him...he is going to change. The difference in his behavior between this visit from your sister and the last time is quite large. So...evolving. What does it mean for your relationship? Who knows. But you standing by and not abandoning a person who grew up somewhat neglected, him watching you mother your children...you are playing a huge part in his process simply by being a caring, responsible, and supportive mother to your children while having the patience to put up with his shenanigans. He has not left the house, but you have not given up on him by asking him to leave. If one thinks that it is going unnoticed by him, I believe that one would be mistaken. Not mind-reading here. Its written all over the actions you are describing.
Keep it up, HaWho. It must be so difficult, but you are a raising your children, ALL of them (even the 47 year old), to be authentic, well loved, responsible men. They will learn about love and relationships and strength from you.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
