What I need to do is not react when he gets angry because I refuse to be his support group. I keep telling him he needs to find someone else to talk to but keep getting dragged back in, I need to walk away if he starts and resist the urge to tell him home truths. I need to let him work it out for himself which he did when there was NC for nearly a week.
What will help you get in a place where you can do that if you see him?
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17