ILYBINILWY - OW - what to do next 3

[Treasur]

Sweetie - you got angry, well that will be because you're human etc...

DB-phooey - you're allowed to make mistakes and if he's serious, then he needs to not think it all gets rugswept. Not that you want to hang him up publicly by his bits (although you might sometimes!) but that changing course is a serious step and - newsflash - it isn't just about him.

Sounds like a) breathing and b) go dim and let him stew a bit is no bad thing. Also gives you time to think about what you really want and how to respond rather than react based on your (understandable) emotions.

If it is just a temp check/word blah moment he's having...he'll do nothing and drop right back. If he is serious, he'll think and realise that it isn't easy for either of you and he'll try again. Then you can do the DB-y thing...but you are NOT responsible for him feeling guilty, only for whether you are smacking him round the head with it.