Get over your hill and see what you find there

[Treasur]

Thoughts? (I think I use this board as an 'am I crazy too?' check!)

If my STBXH doesn't respond to the £ agreement HE asked for by tomorrow, my L will want me to go to Court. I've been thinking about doing a 180 and doing a NC/NOTHING for a month. Why? It will leave H worrying that I'm going to do it. It's about time he gets a taste of his own medicine. It will be fun to see how long before he breaks cover. I need a break from this s**t to focus on more useful things. And it is a real 180 for me, and a bit of control.

Consequences? Nothing in the £ agreement is s/t (pensions, equity in house still on market, replacement for the phantom swimming watch) so won't make a difference to my immediate £ worries. He might apply for the Absolute but nothing I can do about that anyway, and I'm not sure I care as I did because this childish sociopathic version of my H really isn't a catch to hold on to.