Well, W and I went to dinner and talked about going through with the divorce. W will be slowly moving in with her sister the next few weeks. Mentioned that she would want to spend some nights at the house to be close to S13. Basically I told her that since you have decided to move out of the home, then she no longer has free reign to come as she pleases. W seemed hurt by that, but I honestly did care. Also she asked if she would have to hand over her key. That's when I asked her if I was going to get a key to where she was staying. She said no, so I said then why would give you access over here. Told her we'll work out the details.
W seemed somewhat upset, but claimed that she understood. And wanted to give me my space. Said that she was glad to see me doing well. And liked the fact that I was meeting new people and getting involved in a lot of activities. Then she tried giving me the "I'm not happy about this decision speech." Not sure if she was expecting pity. I gave some slight validation and continued sipping my wine. Wasn't really in the mood to hear excuses, since we both know why she wants to leave the MR. Even though she continues to share the same lie. As if saying it would eventually make it true. Other than that the dinner went well, laughed and joked about many things.
The biggest bummer was coming to the conclusion that I will probably have to sell the home. No way either of us could afford it on a one person income. Just want to thank my selfish WW for that for the record. 15 years of plans and goals down the drain, so she can literally chase d*ck. At some point soon we'll have to talk with S13 about all of this. I can already see the emotion breaking down coming from him. The kid has had a great life. And has never experienced any harshness.
W told me that she told MIL about the divorce last Friday. Pretty sure she left out the A and OM in those details. But apparently my MIL hasn't spoken to W since then. MIL is very fond of me. I'm sure at some point my MIL will be calling wanting to know details. She isn't stupid and I'm sure the weird behavior the last 8 months will start to add up.
On a good note, I got did great on my panel review at work and now I am officially certified at my job. Bad news is even though I am still making good time on my run. Due to hurting my right calve muscle, I won't be participating in what I hoped would be my first mud run this weekend.
