Although the silent treatment in going on 72 hrs. now, I am reflecting on some conflicting techniques here on this board.
Become the best you. A Lighthouse etc. yet don't dash around cleaning like a gay boyfriend. Keep conversations short, answer and don't expand. Don't serve her coffee like your old self used to.
So as to not be misunderstood, I am challenging my understanding, not the methods.
I write this as I sit on my patio looking at her dying flowers that I was once told not to water. But, like a M if you don't water them they both eventually die.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
