Thanks AS just making sure that wasn't too weird. I mean it is a little bit but they did a lot for me so I figured I could help where I could. And I completely understand the situation of using them as leverage with W. I never bring W up unless they ask if I heard from her. Apparently she is wayward from them as well. Trying to be a descent role model for BIL since he has none and about to start college with zero life experience. Thanks again for all you write, I don't know if you get enough credit on here!
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years