New to the journey and thank you.

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Kylo it is common and natural for LBS to suspect MLC.

As I read through your thread she sounds like every other WAW/WW. They are all crazy, selfish strangers looking to get offended. Anger fuels their dissension.

They run hot and cold, IMO, the hot is to check your temp and the cold is to fuel dissension.

I wouldn't rule out an A unless you are just sure. If this is the case you will need to take a stronger hand.

Playing along is exhausting and very hard to maintain.

Given her history, I would take a look at what attracted you to her in the first place. For your own growth. I too am a Fixer. It's not healthy and doesn't work in the long run. Something to think about.

Hang in there.