I believe I have given up, the woman I used to know as my beautiful, loving, caring, passionate,nice and a great mother to my children has been replaced by this cold hearted,lying cheater that seems as if she doesn't want me or her children anymore. She has even had heated exchanges with S17 over small issues to the point she has told him to F off! I had to step in to calm the situation, I have never seen her in this light, very disappointing. She continues her EA with the original guy for about 5 months now, he is actually guiding her through this divorce process and giving her advice as to what she should do because she can't do anything on her own.
I am also dealing with her supportive friends that are telling her that she is making the correct decision and stoking her ego, her BFF has now set her up with another guy that my WW went on a date with, not sure if they did anything other than have a few drinks but I don't care what she does at this point. The only thing she does that I care about is how does this affect my children? My kids are lost, looking for guidance and that is where I come in. My relationship with my children is the strongest it has ever been because of this, their faces give me the strength to be the best I can for them while their mom pushes away.
I continue to improve myself, it has been noticed by everyone that know's me and even some other woman that I come in contact with, this has done wonders for my self confidence! I know I will be fine regardless of what my next chapter will be, fairley certain it won't be with WW. Every exchange that I have with her she continues to place all the blame on me that if I do this it will hurt the kids and if I do that it will hurt the kids, blah blah blah! I never hear her say what she is doing will hurt the kids because she believes she has done nothing wrong. I have come to grips with my portion of our problems, I have busted my ass to correct my faults, this will make me a better person for not only myself but my kids moving forward. This is a tough battle but I am more than prepared for the fight!
Last edited by Cadet; 08/16/1707:14 AM. Reason: Link
