First came thoughts of the future - what my life will be like post-D,
I would say that your life post D will look like anything YOU want it to be! Your wife gave you the playbook as to what is wrong(of course we know it's not all true) with you. Your GAL is making you better for your next chapter, a faithful, loyal, honest person and a great father!
Originally Posted By: holding
and especially wondering what kind of interactions I'll have with W. I'm not looking forward to dealing with her nastiness, snide comments,
Thankfully my WW is not a nasty person, I have always said since the day I met her that she is one of the nicest people I have ever met in my life(except for now) We unfortunately need to deal with our W's because of the kids. Lately for me I am looking forward to the day my D11 turns 18 so I never need to deal with my WW again, hate to say it.
Originally Posted By: Accuray
Thinking that your wife is having second thoughts is mind reading, and that doesn't lead anywhere good. The more likely explanation is that she's scared and trying to address some of her fears. That does not in any way mean that she wants to come back, it just means she's scared about the future.
Keep focusing on you and being the person you want to be and everything else will work out.
Completely agree with Accuray here, I think she is having these conversations with you to see where your head is and why you are making these changes to YOU! Keep up your GAL(nice list^^^^ BTW, skydiving?? you know how I feel about that) Still have a long road ahead, it does you no good to have that "what if" mentality, if she told you tonight that she made a mistake and want's back, would you stop your GAL???
