Waw, she is in love, need advice/support II

[Bear007]

@Treasur: of course I have vote, but at the end my vote does not have to count. And I am ok with her decission, but I want her to act upon that decission. So far it has been a lot of 'I want' and lot less 'I did'

@AnotherStander: I have GAL activites, hobby and workouts, my part of family meetings... so at least I am keeping that part OKish.

Another counseling last week, this time it was going in rounds - who is guilty, for what, and even counselor said that it was horrifying how my W repeats same pattern.
Also C said that maybe I am abused because my W never said one good thing about me in whole counseling. And that if I am such a problem that C does not know what W is still doing with me.

That provoked W, but at the end she is still reluctant on changing anything. She has postponed IC because reasons... her doctor is on vacation, so she will do it later. She tried to blackmail me few times with 'if I must seek IC so must you, you need it more'.

C also clearly said: if you want to be emotionaly separated, what is with the sex. Emotional separation means that you can go out and seek another partner for yourselves. Neither of us had an answer for this.