Thank you Treasur,

I feel in control for a change and that is a much better feeling. Detaching and all that important stuff is a much easier task from this position, at least for me.
When she would respond in kind to the release of pressure, I would see change and it made it very confusing.

I'm in no hurry to do anything and no immediate plans to do anything other than keep my space.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.