Hi all
Think we might be in danger of all agreeing vehemently! We all respond from our own experience of this horrific stuff - Blu has wisdom from knowing what reconnection feels like, and how hard piecing is. Cadence knows the limited opportunity to communicate and the desire to do it while keeping your soul safe. I know...gosh, not much...the pain of a vanisher and the uncomfortable truth of what severe depression looks like in an MLC spouse so everyone hurts.

Leah, your goals (esp 2.) look great and they were great questions from Blu.And fab that you're seeing your IC.

I guess I'm wondering what MORE Leah would like to do...what would be the fun, spontaneous, open way to respond? About what you want rather than thinking about what he may or may not bring to the party?

Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17