I have yet to hear anyone come up with a consequence that's worth a damn to a WW. If their name is on the house note, then kicking them out is not an option, especially if they don't want to go. If you raise your voice to the point of scaring the WW. TShe goes right into victim mode. Then guess who goes to jail for the night? So we find ourselves making idol threats for boundaries that we honestly can't enforce. Other than filing for the divorce ourselves. And many H in here aren't even ready to make that move yet. And these WW know it.
Continuing the A was definitely a boundary for me. And at one point, I believe I did mention letting his family know what they were up to. My sole purpose for wanting to contact his family isn't just to snap W out of the fog. But its just the right thing to do. Seeing these people get manipulated by my W is just sad. And I just feel bad for OM W. She's been cheated on for so long over the years, I believe she's just waiting for OM to just get bored with his new play thing. Hell, odds are that OM has other women out there.
Also I'm aware of the why I want to go with exposure. The choice is to say nothing and let W manipulate these folks. Or actually tell the truth and not allow W ruin these folks. Its not even about revenge. I got enough evidence to burn her in the court of law. There is really no benefit in putting my W business out there, unless she decides to act a complete a** during the divorce process when it comes to S13 and property. I was mostly just curious if telling these folks could possibly knock her out of the fog.
