I think I'll be bringing up Retrouvaille this week. There is a program in our area starting the end of next month. I am completely open to it. I expect she will shoot it down but if I give her time to ruminate on it, maybe she will come around.

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But in your post yesterday you said that you ARE NOT THE BETTER OPTION. Can you chew on that for a minute?


Yes, you are right. Many times that I post, I'm talking to myself as much as I am to the rest of you. I DO see the problem with that and recognize that there is no reason for her to want to try harder if I'm not willing to do the same. That's work for me to do.


Me: 48 y/o
W: 47 y/o
Together: > 20 yrs
BD: Dec '15, then S
2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D
April '16: started piecing