Thanks for clarfication woundedfool on limited contact.
If my eife was ww i definitly would look at this differently. I have great respect for those here that are fighting to save there marriage even when a A is happening. The strenght and love the have for there spouse all i can say is wow... i truly dont know what or how i would proceed if that comes to light..
This weekend is full of GAL weekends are what set me spinning the most to much time to dwell on my situation...