How can i test the statment that this is actually helping her?
Not sure what you mean. Please clarify.
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do not have blinders on i know there is a chance my w is a WW as explained by Sandi2 i just have seen no proof of it
Well, she may not be wayward. Her behavior may stem from hormone imbalance. I certainly did, and I acted out in ways that were completely uncharacteristic. However, I had the emotional foundation of resentment and disrespect growing in my heart for years, feelings of rebellion was held back until the final straw of stress hit, and I acted out. I was in crises! I thought it was MLC. (Won't go into details). Just don't get too hung up about what to call her right now. I think it's safe to say that she is in some type of emotional crisis. She is acting strangely from what would be the norm for her. Eventually, if she is wayward.......her rebellion toward her H and the MR will become more evident through her selfish and disrespectful attitude, behavior, and choices.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
