Also what I am hearing is allow my W to manipulate good people and ruin other lives. And allow my W to maintain this sweet innocent image of the W who left her horrible H.
You're not "allowing" anything. The first piece of advice you get on this site is "detach." If you're this convinced that you're "allowing" something, I think it's fair to say that you're NOT.
Live your life. Be the best Tread you can be. Stop burning all of your energy on something you can't control, and can't change. Change you, because I promise you DO have control over that.
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Even though in truth, OM will never leave his W. All the women he has cheated with have been dumb enough to leave their H for him. And they are all regreting it.
Ok, if this is true, then if you want "consequences" to happen, just do nothing. Your W will be another in the long series of women OM has played, and sit there wondering what happened to her perfect plan with her perfect man, and why did I ever leave Tread, who is doing so well now?
If you want to make that personal, imagine that you succeed in blowing up OM's life, his W finally tells him to GTFO, and none of his family want anything to do with him anymore, so he turns to your W for solace and she actually ends up getting what she wants out of the whole deal. Sound appealing at all?
