Wife wants to leave marriage 4

[Treasur]

Ok, Tread, if you tell his W (assuming she doesn't know), she is going to be devastated. If you tell other people, you are robbing her of the right to CHOOSE for herself how she deals with being made to join this horrible club we're all in.

I wouldn't wish some of the pain we've felt on anyone. The idea of feeling publicly humiliated and having to deal with a whole set of other people's emotions and opinions before I'd even had time to catch my breath and realise my whole life had just blown up? Horrific. Please, please don't do this. It's just adding s**t to s**t.