So what should I do, sit back and watch my W manipulate good people? Other than being passive, I have yet to hear on solutions to this problem. My W is literally launching rockets with her behavior. And the worry is a grenade? Other than W and OM who will be affected by this decision. S13 knows his mother is a cheater, he just doesn't know how bad things are.
OM relatives will be the one finding out. And these folks are very religious. Several preachers with wives who frown heavily on this behavior. The only person I see suffering is W when her misdeeds and plotting are discovered. I told my W long time ago that her choices will have consequences. And she laughed it off. So if there are no consequences doesn't that just give her reason to continue on with this behavior?
There are checks and balances in life. And everyone around my W is suffering on some way, while she continues to do her dirt without a care in the world. As far as the letters backfiring. I will likely not even really associate with these folks afterwards. So that will be my good deed for them before moving on. This has nothing to do with anger, but about what is right and wrong. I still have a few months to think about this. So nothing is set in stone. People do bad things, because the so called people sit back and say nothing.
