Limerence and My Situation 2

[Btrow]

Don’t get me wrong I definitely told WW that I thought what she was planning to do over the holidays as a total disrespect to not only me but the boys as well, I mentioned that she is putting them in a position that is pitting me against the AP/LO and is grossly unfair on them.
I pointed out to her that it was morally wrong for her to introduce a stranger into their lives but all this fell on deaf ears and just escalated resentment in her.

Mark,
When ever there is something you want to tell or text your W, ask yourself first "what can I accomplish by telling this?". You're a smart guy. You know you won't accomplish anything positive at all. You can only make things worse. You know she isn't hearing you right now. All that she hear is "blah blah negative blah blah". I know why you do it. I get it.

But for the sake of your sitch, be the bigger person. She sure isn't right now, so if you want things to take a turn for the better eventually, you have to pull back and let things run their natural course.

Here is a little trick for you when you feel a bit down. Just imagine the look on your W's face when AP eventually dumps her. That sad "WTF I lost everything" look. That should lift your mood a bit