Don’t get me wrong I definitely told WW that I thought what she was planning to do over the holidays as a total disrespect to not only me but the boys as well, I mentioned that she is putting them in a position that is pitting me against the AP/LO and is grossly unfair on them. I pointed out to her that it was morally wrong for her to introduce a stranger into their lives but all this fell on deaf ears and just escalated resentment in her.
Being a profound Mr Nice Guy the disrespect demonstrated through these conversations was so obvious and knowing there was no way I could prevent this from happening I basically had to accept the fact.
The boys call me each day to “check in” but what do I say? “I hope you and your brother are enjoying yourselves, what you up to!” It’s interesting as every time they have called WW has chirped in with some kind of comment. I try to keep these conversations short as knowing they’re on the beach with WW and boyfriend is kind of hard to take but it’s not their fault, so far I have found that I could easily manage not seeing WW again as I’m realising it’s the boys I miss now and not her so progress there and again where will I be this time next year…
Thanks for your continued support.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".