My W only see bad things in me. It is like if all of the sudden all good and positive traits evaporated from me.
The overwhelming majority of her comments, texts, and emails are literally and absolutely negative. Lately I am perceived by her not much less than a monster. She claims to "know" me so well that she knows my intentions and thoughts better than me. If I denied something she states, I am lying. According to W everything I say/or don't say, everything I do or avoid doing carries at its core some evil intention against her in one way or another. Every time, everything is about her...
Now ...
1) What is wrong with this human being?
2) For who long is this going to last this negativity?
3) What is the best way for me to respond to such negativity? I have found that reacting, exposing it, or confronting it doesn't change it. She shifts focus and ends up arguing about me being argumentative, or whatever to find more faults and to keep accusing me of this or that.
4) Up to what point to continue avoiding or ignoring?
Your insights about this malady and practical advice to temporarily cope with it are most welcome; particularly if base on your own experience with this issue. Thank you!
