Good 'time to think' response, leah...do what you feel is right but...keep your healthy boundaries in place and zero expectations, I guess?

If he does fly down, where will he stay? Can you see him for some of the weekend but not all of it, so it isn't overwhelming for you both?

Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17