I absolutely love this post!!! So much truth to it and the dynamics of people in general.
Heres my question. If partner X can only respect ones boundaries when that person is less invested in the relationship, what does that say about partner x? Is that the type of partner and relationship partner y really wants?
Lets say that youre partner left, and then came back because you won the lottery, lost weight, discovered the fountain of youth...would you take that partner back? Dont ee want people we dont have to play these distancer/pursuer games with?
I have been thinking a lot lately about fair weather partners.
