One month later and W has again "neglected" to tell me that she and ow are now going to be in regular meetings in ow's office (with a handful of others.)The first one is this Friday. They've been emailing at least since last Friday and while it all appears to be professional and above board I am, again, LIVID that she didn't tell me.(Remember, the emails were always professional even during the affair because they are oh so professional... and would NEVER mix business with... ???) And remember, our agreement was she would tell me immediately whenever there was contact. So my line in the sand must-do has been violated again. I know, I know, I keep moving the line or toeing it in again. And she keeps blaming me. It's all my fault because I get upset because she doesn't tell me and then I find out. I'm not able to convey to her that IF SHE WOULD ONLY TELL ME IT WOULD MAKE ME A LOT LESS UPSET THAN ME FINDING OUT BY DECODING HER PASSWORD - which she recently changed again - AND SEEING THE EMAILS AND MEETINGS IN HER CALENDAR.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
