My husband filed for divorce

[LAJar]

So I ended up calming myself down and responded to the text. I said thanks and that I could talk next week on my day off. I find this a waste of time because I'm not going to negotiate with him the terms of our divorce. I'm going to seek legal cousel and then see what's recommended. He keeps pressing me to discuss as if all of this will be wrapped up in a couple of months (sell house, divide assets/debt). I've resolved to hear him out & will fight like hell to take the high road. Any advice on how to proceed with this meeting, especially if it starts to get contentious. Some 180s (just in case)?

Part of me wants this over & done w/ as quickly as possible because I don't think he'll give us another shot. Things are obviously also really shaky financially & I just want to some stability again. We're just shy of a month & I know it's just begun...