So gave it some though i can limit contact during the week but its her choice if she comes to church i guess i can limit conversation there.

How can i test the statment that this is actually helping her?

I have noticed a better connection with kids like i said in previos comments it seems to unravel near the end of visits..

I do not have blinders on i know there is a chance my w is a WW as explained by Sandi2 i just have seen no proof of it

I would thing some signs would be evident she still seem so messed up and unkept. Overthinking again....

Ride on the bike did relax me need to continue with that!!

M47 W45
S16 D18
M 25
BD January 17