Not sure how telling the truth is a punishment. I would want someone to warn me that someone was trying to destroy a MR in my family. Your right, I Can't control my W. And she will always be the mother of my child. But that doesn't give her a pass.
My goal for DB'ing was to get my MR back on track. But instead of learned to become a much better person. And achieved several goals so far and already planning on new goals to meet. And right now my W seems so small with all her trifling ways. If things were to suddenly get back on track. I am not really sure how my W would fit into my world. Not even sure if I would want to share any of it with her.
Sad to admit that, but I am very active and W wants to sit on her butt. She tried to come off like she is the one who goes out. But she'll go out to drink on occasion, but other than that. Her idea if excitement is sneaking off into the bathroom to text with OM. Which is pitiful and sad to see my W lower herself to such a level. But that is the choice she made.
As for how this helps in the ling term. I call it peace of mind knowing that I gave out the warning. What they do with that information is on them. From that point, I will simply move on into my new life.
