Sandi2 thanks for the wake up call. I have made arrangements to see my doctor. My W from what I here from the kids doesn't engage her family much either. I believe just gets validation from MIL. She keeps insisting we are moving in the right direction. It just really affects me when I see the drastic change that can come over her. She says that these times with the family are helping her get past bad memories. Almost like she is DB me! The community we live in if she started to be social it would not be long before it got back to me.
I will try and limit contact with w. The worst part is usually the our time seem to be So positive it's just the good byes. I was hoping it was the push pull Thing I was reading about.
I just keep asking myself how could I have missed the signs!!! Time to GAL my bike is calling....
